This is it, the big day. Your friends are getting married and you havebeen assigned to say a few words on that all important occasion.There’s no pressure on you they say, we just want our best friendto make our special day even more special. You mentally tear at your hair,but calmly agree to the whole thing, managing to paste what apparently passes as an enthusiastic smile on your face at the same time. No pressure indeed!There could be worse things happening to you, but at the momentyou fail to find any of them to cheer yourself up. You take a minute toyourself when the happy couple leaves to lean back against your frontdoor and hyperventilate in increasing panic.