The book was inspired by normal daily life book reading, television, friendships, family and personal experiences where she put the puzzles of the mysteries of life together in a way that she hopes it makes sense to the world today. The purpose of this book is to open the eyes and hearts of communities to take a deeper look at what is happening around and with them from her point of view which a mere opinion that everyone is free to look into or discard. By choice the reader should allow the findings to help him/her find reasons to make better choices for a healthier and happier life. “Charity begins at home” thus if the family is solid and healthy we can build better communities and better nations. This book was written in Ennerdale, Johannesburg, South Africa where Sylandra grew up and faced all her challenges fears and doubts and battled all her weaknesses whilst building her own inner strength’s within realizing that she does not have to travel far to grow.