Can a Woman Have it All? No one can have it all. But I have had a lot: to wit, a long-lasting marriage of sixty-two years, four children and six grandchildren, a highly satisfying family life, and an engaging and productive career. How did this all happen? Read my book to find out. What Guidelines Did I Follow for Such a Fulfilling Life? Here are a few. “Who refreshes others will be refreshed.” The Book of Proverbs “Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is the present, that’s why it’s a gift.” Anonymous “If I am not for myself who will be for me? And if I am only for myself, what am I? And if not now, when?” Hillel