Most of our problems in life come from the fact that we either agreeto too much or we refuse things that we later repent. Though we maybe highly educated, there is one department that most of us arelacking in… that of saying yes or no at the right place.This e-Book delves into that collective shortcoming of the humanrace. If you think about it, this is quite apt. When we talk about sayinganything to anyone anywhere, we are basically dabbling about the twoextremities—yes and no. Either you are agreeable to what you aretold, or you are not. But, it is saying it out aloud that matters.Sometimes when you agree to too much, you might find too manythings on your platter and though you have the talent to do an expertjob of it, the shortage of time could be your downfall. You find thatyou are not able to do justice to everything that you have taken up. Asa result, you lose your credibility, and people lose faith in you.Though you are an expert, your downfall was that you took up toomany things. Naturally, you had to make a short shrift of things andeverything did not work out as you had planned.The other extremity could be a problem. There are some people whorefuse almost anything. They have paranoia about acceptinganything. Refusal is their default reaction. This could be theirundoing though, because by unthinkingly refusing everything thatcomes in their way, they are probably losing out on a lot ofopportunities. Table Of ContentsChapter 1:Why We Say Yes When We Want to Say NoChapter 2:When to Say YesChapter 3:When to Say NoChapter 4:The Dangers of Saying Yes Too MuchChapter 5:The Pitfalls of Saying No Too MuchChapter 6:Striking the Balance between Saying Yes and Saying NoChapter 7:Agreeing Elegantly—Ensuring You Do Not Come Across as Too DesperateChapter 8:Refusing Politely—Ensuring There Are No Hurt Feelings