To anyone who comes into contact with a parent of a child who has a disability, please say as many of these ‘choice’ phrases in public as many times as you like! • They are sooooo gorgeous! • He is sooooo beautiful! • He is sooooo handsome! • He is such a wonderful baby! • He is sooooo strong! • You have such great genes; look how handsome he is! • He has your eyes! • He is sooooo smart! • Hi! How are you? • It is nice to see you. • He’s doing fine!