Why is reading someone else’s E-mail so tempting? This intimate glimpse into the cyber love life of two passionately opinionated African American women is as addictive as eavesdropping . As the discussion grows from personal computers to the simply personal, Ebony and Wanita aren’t afraid to go where no sister has gone before, as they debate each other about everything from office romance, meddling mothers, interracial dating, the holiday blues, homophobia, to Y2K.