Everyone has gone through life's struggles and triumphs. Being the oldest of four boys had a way of making me the leader in more ways than one. All my ventures I have encountered were of unselfishness and more of the need to be wanted. I made the best of all my encounters even though being the victim profoundly raised its head. The best thing you can do is keep moving forward and do not look back. This story of tragic and sometimes happy times will possibly be an answer to some that things do get better with persistence and loyalty to ones self reliance. All things happen for a reason and I am here to let you know, everything will eventually be ok.