Have you EVER felt like your life has been held hostage; like someone has threateningly held a gun against your head and demanded your money or your life?Every felt threatened by not getting what you need?Derailed by procrastination?Humiliated by failure?Ridiculed by others?How would you like to be?Empowered by achievement?Strengthened by success?Loved unconditionally by family, friends and your partner? How would you like to Control your life?And that means control in your sex, work, family, social and sports life?And import these values into your existence?Your first thoughts would be, 'Yeh, sure!'Then after a few minutes you wouldn't be alone in thinking:'All I would need to do is the impossible. All that's required of me is, 'a minor miracle'. Why should that be a problem?'But then you would be thinking what if there is a chance?I am here to tell you there is! You can take Control!We all have a bucket list of sorts, filled with our desires, fondest wishes and ambitions. We have to balance these against what we believe is possible. It's not an easy trick. Are we supposed to aspire only to that which we see as easily attainable, or throw caution to the wind in pursuit of our dreams? Much of this comes down to timing the ability to seize opportunity when it arises and most importantly understanding CONTROL.What we aim to do, want to be and attempt to achieve doesn't always matter when assessed against the values of our activities. Sometimes well-meant actions and words turn out to misconstrue our real thoughts and so the intent of our actions and words loses its power. We in turn lose whatever control we ever contemplated and the chance to redeem any regulator gets placed permanently under the pile of to do lists. Paradoxically bad objectives can tip to occasions which we didn't anticipate. Often, we find our self in situations where the opportunity to improve our self, take back yesterday and become more assertive in life presents yet we don't have enough courage and trust in our self to do so. In short control of life gets lost in translation.In this paperback, I have summed up how to Control your own life in a way that will revolutionise your life forever...to take you away from the worry and chaos in order to move ahead in surety and style When you invest your energies in a situation your attachment is understandable and it takes much courage to accept your judgement and decisions. Your decision and henceforth control won't disappoint if you have prepared as best you can. Now your transformation will be palpable. This book had one aim - to enamour you with the tips and techniques to help you control your life - to take it by the scruff of the neck and enjoy everything that you deserve in life. Experience the control and when you feel like someone or a situation is bringing you to task; a, 'Your money or your life?' showdown-now you can fire back - 'take that - aint no one controlling my life except me!'