We are faced with many dilemas in ministry. But what about if we are faced with who's the boss? Who's the boss of the church truly matters to God and the parishioners. We will discuss in this Part 1 sequel how pastors are faced with a dilema of "The Jezebel Spirit" from their own wives. Many times women or "First Wives" have passed criterias which have not been addressed and bring them along to their relationships which cause them to control and manipulate. God placed the pastor or husband to plant and build the church for The Kingdom of God. But unless some include their wives; the wives will find and search ways to take over The Body of Christ.