Stacy Dunn, an Air Force ENT surgeon's wife authentically reflects on the trials and challenges medical families face during the rigorous training years of medical school and residency. Stacy married her college sweetheart, Joel, in the summer of 2006; Joel entered medical school in August of 2007; a month later the couple welcomed their first child into the world. It was certainly a dramatic beginning. Ten years later, the two exited Joel's surgical residency in 2016 with four kids and DEBT-FREE. Stacy and Joel authentically open up about their family's CHAOTIC life and the nature of delayed gratification during the training years in hopes of equipping more medical families for success at home and at work. When medical families win, so do our communities.