The author wants men to search within themselves to identify the underlying issues and deal with them and focus on the real-life value of life, which is family and being available if permissible. The author encourages all of us have the power to change and the freedom of choice. The change of our perception of ourselves is the first step to self-care and it is the beginning of the healing process. Once you are healed then your relationship should improve with other and there is nothing like having a rich and fulfilling life that we long for and deserve. Change start with self. The author choice to use his personal experience and education to better the lives of others which is admirable. His insight provides wisdom worthy of sharing and is needed for men and all who read the book, to make a positive change for self and the family. Anyone who reads this book can us the advice as a reflection for themselves and hopefully will make positive changes in order to grow and secure the family by showing love, understanding and never giving up.