Yes, you're his wife, but you are God's daughter first. Don't let anyone tell you what heels to wear!Is the ministry straining your marriage? Are you standing on a shaky pedestal? Does glamour seem more important than growth? Well, Chantea Kirkwood knows just where you are. This former first lady was there too. In this very personal book, she reveals her own struggles, coupled with stories of strength and strategy from first ladies just like you. She learned how to keep maturing through the landmines of ministry, and so can you!