When we study Tantric or Kama Sutra we learn that for some reason we have to create love outside our self before we can our self.This book just like others out there is a guide a place to start a place that as you connect with your love you find the love in you.We are taught that to love our self is vain and selfish. Finding out that no matter what we look like you are beautiful. That you have great gifts to bring to the world and that the world needs you.