Making Nice with Naughty: An Intimacy Guide for the Rule-Following, Organized, Perfectionist, Practical, and Color-Within-The-Line Types

Society tells you self-control is great; it's a virtue. Yet, your success in managing emotions, getting the job done, getting accolades for being detail-oriented, planful, driven, etc. haven't led to success in your intimate relationships and in the bedroom. You've been told how being gets you into trouble and that you should live by the rules to be successful. So, you developed self-control. Too much self-control, however, wreaks havoc in areas where vulnerability is essential: intimate relationships and sex life. Can you have too much self-control? You bet! Too much self-control, also known as the Overcontrolled Temperament, is characterized by the following core traits: Are you experiencing low sexual desire, emotional distance from your partner, sexual performance anxiety, sexual perfectionism, anorgasmia, sexual dysfunction, or sexual pain disorders? Then you owe it to yourself to read Why? Because you're not alone. Millions, just like you, struggle with relaxing and being playful during sex. Naughty has gotten a bad rap and represents so much of what you've come to avoid: mystery, unpredictability, unfamiliarity, and uncertainty. Yet, these features are essential to acquiring a meaningful and fulfilling sex life. It's time to ! Integrating several innovative and effective psychotherapies, Dr. Thomas L. Murray, Jr. takes you on an eye-opening journey, using humor and directness, to help you get what you want: a more fulfilling sex life. Here's why you'll love this guide: