How to Save your Marriage: Overcoming Divorce

Marriage is a commitment, despite the fact that it may sound horribly archaic, and people should take every precaution to avoid undermining it in any way. It takes a lifelong, missionary-like effort to stay married. It requires guts. To make a marriage succeed, you must have steely nerves. We can persevere in such work with the help of a sense of humour and a diminished feeling of significance. There will be many challenges, and there will be times when we will doubt our sanity and wonder if we can really persevere. To continue to be drawn to the same qualities that drew you to your spouse on the first day you met will require a tremendous amount of effort. Your partner hasn't changed at all; only their clothing has; they are still the same person you fell in love with. Which route will you take if there is only one option to get a divorce but a thousand ways to keep your marriage? Will you give up or will you take on one more challenge?