Have you ever been hurt, sometimes badly, by a romantic partner's over the top level of self-involvement? Have you ever wondered why and how a loved one could be so self-absorbed and oblivious to what you are experiencing? Narcissists are often experts in intensity, passion, and romantic seduction. It's easy to fall in love with them, but they always make sure that their relationships are organized around their priorities, agendas, and emotional ups-and-downs. Their feelings and needs always come first!In HELP! I'M IN LOVE WITH A NARCISSIST, Carter and Sokol show you how to recogize narcissistic behavior and understand why we are attracted to partners who are self-absorbed. They also help you understand why so many narcissists have commitment issues and how narcissism and commitmentphobia are closely connected. Learn how to realistically appraise your partner's capacity for love and get the tools to help you change yourself and avoid falling for partners who are incapable of loving anyone but themselves.