Sometimes men get you down with their lack of understanding. I developed a medical problem but my boyfriend was really unsympathetic. He got dumped, of course. This rather put me off looking for another guy to fill his place. My friend Tracy persuaded me to stay in the game. I wasn't keen to begin having relationships with guys again. I decided to meet them halfway, as you might say. Having fun with them without them going the full way. There followed a few months when I had plenty of excitement, but it wasn't exactly by eating bananas.